I once heard it said that pornography is a difficult thing to define in the legal system. “You know it when you see it, but legally defining it is complicated”. I can see the difficulty in this regards, but the opposite is true when it comes to the demands of life.
“Demands of life?” You might ask. Yes, no one should live on this earth and place no demands on life. While the world owes you nothing and you owe it everything, you should have a list of things you desire during your stay here. There’s only one caveat:

Be clear, be firm and make your request known. Simply saying you need more love, attention, caring, etc., is not enough. Unless you can clearly convey what that is and what it looks like, you will never receive it.
Alesha Brown, The Joy Guru
Publisher|Best Selling Author|Transformational Speaker
CEO, Alesha Brown LLC